To fall in love is wonderful, isn’t it? The answer would be YES and that too an astounding YES. What about falling out of Love, is it painful? The answer again is astounding YES. So the falling in and falling out of love and the neediness, the begging and the pleading and crying and cursing and apologizing, the sleepless nights, the wetting of pillows in tears, wetting the handkerchiefs (these handkerchiefs get more dirty with tears and nasal flows) - God seriously love can get nasty isn’t it…. Oops, love is not nasty folks, falling out of love is, or do we make it nasty ?? Didn’t understand my question folks ??? Was it even a question… OK let us consider a phenomenon which says that falling out of love is happiness - would anyone of us agree? I certainly would not have agreed a few months back. Never ever. Maybe people who would read this article would call me a Crazy Maniac who does not know love at all. Ya right - I did not do a Ph.D. in loveology(if ever such a course even existed) but I do have my points to defend my statement “Falling out of love is happiness”
You are madly in love, deeply in love, lost in love, enchanted in love, mesmerized in love and whatever in love ok. Enough.. So simply put you are in love… There are many proverbs as they say - Grass looks greener, Rose looks more pink, his/her voice feels like music, the air smells enchanting, all words feel like the writings of Shakespeare. Yeah, yeah I get it (YOU ARE IN LOVE)
Since I am acting the Villain here - I am the Villain and my name is BreakUp. Let’s have a chat.
Breakup: Hey hi Lover, how do I look? Ain’t I some Tom Cruise or Angelina Jolie
Lover: No u look like a Dracula and some horrific Bitch
Breakup: Shutup, I bring you selfishness and awareness that you can be you and not be dependent
Lover: No get lost, you f(beep)(beep)ing suck. Just F(beep)(beep)k off
Breakup: OK OK relax my man/lady, don’t blame me. I am just a mirror image of you
Lover: Mirror Image - my Ass, you are a Goddamn curse. Just get lost
Breakup: You hate me or you Love me, I am the reality
Lover - No you are a pain in my Ass, just get lost and never come back. I hate you
Breakup: I know I cause pain but I am the reason you will find yourself
Lover: I do not need to find myself. I need to find him/her back
Breakup: Fine suit yourself!
Lover: Mind your own business and get lost
So this is the conversation which proves that Breakup is happiness but then we cannot see it. Ok, 99% of the people would not agree that the above conversation is happiness. I will not second their thoughts because the reality is hard to comprehend and virtuality is so real, it feels like so close and so near. Feel like touching it… It is hot remember… can burn your heart to ashes. Careful folks.
All I meant to say is falling out of love is important and it is important to fall in love with yourself again. Do not wanna be a philosopher but then “JISKO SAMAJHNA HAI SAMJHE, JISKO NAHI SAMAJHTA HAI JAAKE HONEY SINGH SE UNKI BHAINS KA ADDRESS LE AND UNKI BHAINS CHARAAYE”